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DR. JERRY OZIEL FOR MOMS
THE FACTS SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES
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Everything your daughter
needs to know about guys, sex & relationships...

but didn't who or how to ask*

 

*The biggest 50 Mistakes girls  and young women make with guys with sex & relationships AND HOW TO AVOID THEM
 
   
a MOTHER DAUGHTER  empowerment
self esteem event


 
 

 
UPCOMING SEMINARS &  WORKSHOPS:

 ALBUQUERQUE
 PORTLAND, OR
 VANCOUVER, WA
 WASHINGTON D.C.
 BOSTON, MA
 SEATTLE, WA
 TACOMA, WA
                  VANCOUVER, BC

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READ THE ACTUAL PARENT & DAUGHTER
RATINGS & REVIEWS OF PAST SEMINARS





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100% OF MOMS & DADS RATED SEMINAR "REALLY USEFUL" FOR DAUGHTERS
100% OF ALL DAUGHTERS RATED THE SEMINAR REALLY USEFUL AGE 11 - 19
100% OF MOMS & DADS WOULD REFER FAMILY & FRIENDS TO THE SEMINAR
100% OF MOMS & DADS WOULD ATTEND ANOTHER SEMINAR BY DR. OZIEL
100% OF DAUGHTERS SAID "I LEARNED VERY IMPORTANT INFORMATION"
AVERAGE RATING OF SEMINAR by ALL PARENTS on SCALE OF 1-10 WAS 9.34
 

 
 
MOMSOMSM
DADS
GIRLS 11-14
GIRLS 15-19
"REALLY USEFUL"
100%
100%
100%
100%
RECOMMEND TO FRIENDS
& FAMILY
100%
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WOULD ATTEND
ANOTHER
SEMINAR BY
DR. OZIEL
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MOMS
DADS
GIRLS 11-14
  GIRLS 15-19
 






MOMS, READ WHAT
VERY HIGHLY REGARDED LEADERS IN HEALTH
& NATIONALLY RECOGNIZED HEALTH CARE PROFESSORS
HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THIS SEMINAR
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 

NEXT EVENTS:  ALBUQUERQUE, PORTLAND, VANCOUVER, BOSTON, D.C.

      LIMITED SEATING


EARLY REGISTRATION PRESERVES YOUR SEATS
& GIVES YOU A HUGE SEMINAR PODCAST DISCOUNT
 
  


 
THE
FACT SHEET
CAN BE PRINTED
RIGHT HERE:
 
NOW...
HERE ARE
THE 50 BIGGEST MISTAKES YOUR DAUGHTER IS LIKELY TO MAKE WITH GUYS:
 
 
© 2010  Dr. Jerry Oziel.  All rights reserved. SEE FULL COPYRIGHT NOTICE ON HOME PAGE
 
 
HERE THEY ARE!
 
1. Getting into compromising & vulnerable situations
 
2. Having sex too early or easily
 
3.  Sexting with a guy
 
4.  Going on “model photo shoot” with a man
 
5. Not knowing how to identify the "good guys"
 
6.  Not knowing the 10 ploys guys use
 
7.  Not knowing times you are vulnerable
 
8.  Not knowing you don’t have to have sex because he wants to
 
9.  Not knowing the 10 reasons not to have sex early
 
10.  Not knowing right ways to meet guys (NOT online!)
 
11.  Not knowing how to identify the “bad guys”
 
12.  Not harnessing the power of “NO”
 
13.  Not insisting on respectful treatment
 
14. Not knowing how to set boundaries
 
15. Not knowing how to enforce boundaries
 
16. Not getting enough information on a guy you see
 
17. Not knowing how to build self-esteem
 
18. Not using Dr. Oziel’s self-esteem rules
 
19. Not knowing how to negotiate with guys
 
21. Not knowing the facts about STDs
 
22. Not knowing facts about conception & contraception
 
23. Not knowing sex facts
 
24. Not knowing the 6 situations to avoid
 
25. Not knowing guy conflicts of interest
 
26a. Not knowing the double standard
 
26. Forgiving & excusing bad behavior
 
27. Believing what guys say about selves
 
28. Not making a clear decision on sex BEFORE you have sex
 
29. Being passive and submissive to keep a relationship
 
30. Having sex to get a guy to stay with you & like you
 
31. Making wrong choices over and over
 
32. Not knowing how to handle complex situations with guys Dr.Oziel will describe
 
33. Not planning what to say about sex ahead of time
 
34. Not rehearsing difficult situations you will have with guys
 
35. Having too much alcohol with a guy
 
36. Doing drugs with a guy
 
37. Not watching for negatives in his personality and character
 
38.Thinking a guy’s personality will change
 
39.Thinking you know a guy too soon before you really can
 
40. Being with a guy for the wrong reasons
 
41. Not paying attention to things he says that don't make sense
 
42. Staying with a guy who shows disrespect
 
43. Staying when he violates your boundaries and limits
 
44. Not knowing how to be assertive with guys
 
45. Not protecting yourself
 
46. Staying with a guy if he doesn’t appreciate you
 
47. Thinking a guy’s character will change
 
48. Not sticking to your own goals and getting persuaded
 
49. Being overly eager with a guy or chasing a guy
 
50. Telling too much about yourself too soon
 
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BROCHURE ON
50 BIGGEST  
         MISTAKES
 
 
   the facts!
        (are scary!)
 
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.  95% of girls don’t talk openly about sex with their parents
 
· Daughters usually don’t tell the truth if asked about sexual behavior
 
· 50% of daughters 14-19 have already had intercourse AND given AND received oral sex
 
· Most parents have no idea what their daughters are really doing
 
· Most daughters this age
are clueless, ignorant, naive, gullible about guys and sex
 
· By age 19, 7/10 teens have had sex
 
· Sex with no contraception 
produces a 90% probability of pregnancy in a year
 
· 750,000 girls 15-19 get pregnant each yr
 
· Daughters aged 15-24 report 9 million new cases of STD’s every year
 
. Teen pregnancies,abortions & STD's are on the RISE again
according to recent government reports
 
· Sticking your head in the sand is dangerous where your daughter's welfare is concerned
 
· The emotional damage to daughters as a result of not having adult judgment with guys with sex can last a lifetime
 
· Many daughters are passive & submissive with guys.This can be a disaster.
 
· Many daughters make the same wrong decisions & big mistakes with guys over & over
 
· The patterns young women develop with guys during this age can be lifelong
 
· Most young women don’t know how to set and enforce boundaries and limits
 
·Many daughters do not have a clear sense of how to set and keep standards
 
· Many daughters suffer big blows to self esteem by guys during the ages of 12-19 
 
· Most young women have no strategies for dealing with complex guy situations
 
· Many young women have great difficulty saying “No” & being assertive with guys
 
 
 
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ACTUAL COMMENTS 
FROM PAST ATTENDEES:
 
“Dr. Oziel was comfortable and he made me feel comfortable being there. I wish there was more time.  I would recommend this seminar to others to learn how to be a better person when it comes to being in a  relationship.” 
 
Alicia G. undergraduate
student, 19
 
 
“Dr. Oziel is knowledgeable and trustworthy. Dr. Oziel had a thought provoking way of presenting this. I loved  it!
 
Albuquerque, female
 
 
“This was informative and well presented. This  seminar should
be required for all women by the time they are 13. Very useful and informative.”
 
Albuquerque, female
 
 
“Dr. Oziel is honest about men. He gives information we sometimes don’t want to hear about men. I would recommend this seminar to all single females and to all young females 13 or over.  
                                                                 
Albuquerque, female
 
"Dr. Oziel was dynamic, frank, realistic. I wish  the seminar
lasted a week. I wish it was a course. I needed this in high school.”
 
Dianne Z., facilities
manager
 
 
“Dr. Oziel has lived this and knows this! Thank you so much for providing this service. I would recommend this seminar for women’s self improvement, protection and as assertion training!”       
                              
Debra B, patient 
educator
 
 
"This information about men in relationships is priceless and this seminar is the only way I've ever seen to get it." 
 
Albuquerque, female
 
 
“Dr. Oziel was a great speaker. I learned so much. 
Dr. Oziel explained things in a way I could understand.                                                                         
Wanda S.,
administrator
 
 
 
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THIS JUST IN!
 
NEW STUDY SHOWS
MODIFIED ABSTINENCE
SEMINAR CAN DELAY
SEX FOR UP TO TWO
YEARS FOR MANY TEENS
CLICK LINK BELOW FOR RESULTS
 
education/03abstinence.html
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
FAQ's FOLLOW THE NEXT EVENTS SECTION!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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The UPCOMING EVENTS:
 
 
 
CLICK ON THIS PDF FILE LINK TO DOWNLOAD YOUR
PRINTABLE FLYER
 

 
 
 
 




Date: 7/17/2011
 
ALBUQUERQUE, NM
 
Time:
2:00 - 4:30 p.m.


Location: 
UNIVERSITY OF NEW MEXICO
STUDENT UNION
LOBO ROOM, 2ND FLOOR
Parking Available
EARLY REGISTRATION BY: 7/7/2011
 
 

     BIG BONUS 
WITH EXTRA EARLY REGISTRATION


 
2.5 HOUR SEMINAR PODCAST 70% OFF
YOU WILL WANT TO HEAR THIS PODCAST
HERE'S WHY: THIS PODCAST CONTAINS
 
  • ALL THE VERY BIGGEST MISTAKES
  • MORE THAN 2.5 HOURS OF CRITICAL INFORMATION
  • LEARNING EXERCISES FOR YOUR DAUGHTER
  • RESOURCES FOR YOUR DAUGHTER
 
THE PODCAST GIVES YOUR DAUGHTER THE OPPORTUNITY TO REPEAT LISTEN AS THIS INFORMATION IS VALID THROUGHOUT LIFE.
 
REPEATED LISTENING  REINFORCES
THE SEMINAR PRINCIPLES OVER & OVER
THIS INGRAINS THE LEARNING OVER MANY YEARS.
 
 
  • 2 SET PODCAST $99 THE DAY OF SEMINAR
 
  • SAME 2 SET SEMINAR PODCAST $29 FOR THIS EVENT
  ONLYWITH EARLY REGISTRATION
 
 
 
TO REGISTER, PLEASE GO TO
SEMINAR REGISTRATIONS PAGE
ON THIS WEBSITE

 
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FAQ's:
 
Q: I wanted to bring my two daughters to the seminar that deals with mistakes young girls make with boys. One of my daughters is only 14. Isn't that too young for her to hear you talk about sex? 
 
A:  By the age of 18, 50% of all girls in a recent study had already had intercourse AND oral sex, both giving and receiving oral sex. The time to educate young women is from the beginning, as soon as they reach adolescence and the boys they date have reached adolescence and are motivated to have sex with them.  The lessons learned in this seminar are life lessons that will serve your daughter well over all the relationships she ever has with men. They are the lessons that much older women repeatedly express they "wish" they learned when they were 12, 13, 14.  It is obviously up to you, the mom, to decide what you want your daughter to learn.  It is important, however, not to stick your head in the sand.Your daughter is likely already dealing with "guy pressure" and this pressure will only intensify.  Girls are faced with complex sexual pressure long before they have the psychological strategies to cope well with these situations. Don't count on your daughter to "tell you the truth" about her sexual activity or concerns. Most adolescent girls will not be comfortable\ discussing their sexual experience with their mother or father.  Better by far to simply make sure your daughter(s) is educated in a frank and specific way by a certified sex educator /sex therapist without you attempting to pry information from her.This way, she will know how to protect herself both emotionally and physically. Any daughter is much better served by knowing exactly how to handle boys (and, later, men) than by being left on her own to fumble, flounder and err.This mother daughter seminar, by the way, focuses on much more than "sex." The emphasis is on self-esteem, discipline, dignity, assertiveness, and self-protection, setting boundaries & limits & enforcing them. This is an empowerment seminar and not a sex education seminar, per se.
 
 
Q: My daughter doesn't want to come to the mother daughter seminar on the mistakes girls make with boys. Shall I drag her in? 
 
A:  Drag her in?  I think you can tell her that probably many
girls who attend have not "wanted to come" to begin with but that no girl who has actually heard this seminar has ever once wanted to leave before it was over. So, her initially not wanting to go is "normal!"  You might tell her that if she is that one person who does want to leave, you will let her leave early (with you, of course). The odds are very high that, once the seminar begins, she will be very involved. After all, everyone else who has attended has become involved!
 
Q:  My daughter seems to be mainly embarrassed about going to a seminar with me that discusses sex. She'll come to the seminar but just doesn't want to go with me. Can I bring her and pick her up and have her come alone? I'd rather have her go alone than not go at all.
 
A: You have that option. But, you will miss sharing the event with her and the Mom & daughter talking that will be stimulated by attending together. Plus, you won't know what she learned!
 
 
Q:  My daughter's father wants to come. Do you have any provisions for that?
 
A:  Sure. We encourage Dads to attend. It is a bonding experience and shows your daughter that her Dad cares about her and is involved in her life. We just charge expenses for Dads which amounts to $26 extra when accompanied by Mom & daughter. We have a Paypal button on the registration site for Mom, Dad & 1 Daughter and another for Mom, Dad & multiple daughters. Mom, Dad & 1 daughter has a seminar fee of $125. Mom, Dad & multiple daughters has a seminar fee of $150.
 
Q: I don't know whether I should ask my daughters to come, tell them to come, or what. What might you suggest?
 
A:  A younger teen is more likely to need to be told that "this seminar is very important for you and I want both of us to go (and, possibly, Dad)." A 12 or 13 year old will rarely be able make a good decision on her own or really know what is at stake for her. An older teen (16 -19) however, might be more receptive to you letting her read the mistakes followed by discussing the seminar and how this seminar is an opportunity you never had that you wished you could have attended.You can also let her know the solutions are solutions for life and not specific to her age. Many late teens have attended "the mistakes" seminar and have uniformly
given the seminars very high ratings. In other words, once your teen knows the content and that others her age have benefited greatly, she may very much want to go.
 
Q:  Is this seminar for girls in trouble or problem kids?
 
A: This seminar is for ALL adolescents. The seminar helps prevent future problems for all adolescent girls. It is not targeted specifically to girls who "need this because they are in trouble," although girls in this situation may also benefit greatly from this seminar.